Just realized I was the bad roommate for 8 months and my old roommate let me believe otherwise
My roommate Brenda moved out of our place in Fort Wayne last March and I spent months telling anyone who would listen that she was the messy one. Then I found a note she left tucked in the junk drawer that said "the trash is always full on Tuesdays" and it hit me that she had quietly been taking it out every week while I just kept adding to it. I counted back and figured I probably filled up 40 or so bags worth of stuff she hauled to the curb herself. Has anyone else found out way too late that they were the problem the entire time?