Showerthought: I was the toxic one in my group chat and a screenshots folder showed me
For years I thought my friend Dana was the problem because she'd go quiet for weeks after our hangouts. Then I scrolled back through 14 months of our group chat on a boring Tuesday and saw I was the one who kept "joking" about her job in front of everybody. I sent her a real apology with no excuses and we're good now, but has anyone else caught themselves being the bad guy after a cut-off?