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I finally learned why my aunt's joke bombing at Thanksgiving was actually on me

She told a dark cancer joke and I got all offended until my cousin pulled me aside and said 'she's literally had chemo 3 times, let her laugh.' Now I just shut up and listen before judging other people's humor. Has anyone else had that moment where you realized you were the one being too sensitive?
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brianm66
brianm663h ago
Well that's a gut punch, guess I'll stick to puns from now on.
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kimfisher
kimfisher3h ago
Oh come on, "gut punch" seems a little dramatic for a pun that didn't land. Did someone actually get upset, or are you just overthinking it?
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stella_taylor
That's a little harsh honestly. Sometimes a joke just doesn't land the way you hoped and it stings a bit. It's not about anyone getting upset, it's more like that little whoops moment when you realize your delivery flopped. We've all been there, right? I think it's nice to cut people some slack when they're just trying to be funny. Maybe just a lighthearted "aww, better luck next time" instead of calling it dramatic.
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