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PSA: Using a designated 'trail leader' rotation solved endless bickering with my siblings.
On group hikes, we now assign a different person each mile to set the pace and choose rest spots. This gives everyone a sense of control and reduces arguments over speed or breaks. Kids especially enjoy the responsibility when it's their turn. It has made our family outings smoother and more inclusive for all ages.
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amy_west49m ago
Actually, rotating control can sometimes create more indecision if nobody's clearly in charge. Laura841 is right about fairness mattering, but groups often need one person to make final calls even with shared input.
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laura8412h ago
Reading this made me consider how we handle decision-making in all sorts of groups. Rotating authority seems to tap into basic human needs for fairness and involvement. Your family hikes are a microcosm of that principle in action.
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alice_hernandez301h ago
Honestly, I used to think consistency trumped all, but @laura841's point about rotating authority convinced me otherwise. In my experience, sharing control really does reduce friction in groups.
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