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Matched with someone who only talked about her ex for 2 hours
Last Saturday I matched with a woman on Hinge and we moved to texting. She spent two straight hours telling me about her ex's dog custody drama, down to the vet bills and who gets holidays. I finally asked if she was actually over him and she said 'mostly, but it's complicated.' I unmatched after that. It made me rethink how fast I share my own baggage, does anyone else set a boundary about ex talk before meeting up?
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davidkim6d ago
Two hours of ex talk before meeting is wild. My rule is no past relationship stories until at least a second date, unless it's a quick funny one. That dog custody stuff is way too personal for a stranger, kinda feel like she was venting more than dating. Good call on unmatching, that's a red flag about where her head's at.
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