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PSA: The 'just moved here' profile is getting out of hand
Matched with a guy in Denver last month whose entire personality was being new, and he asked me to plan our entire first date because he 'didn't know any spots'... Has anyone else run into this and just felt like a free tour guide?
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mianelson3mo ago
He asked you to plan the whole thing?
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emeryj663mo ago
But what if the person in charge picks a place nobody likes?
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gray_morgan3mo ago
Yeah I used to think planning everything was a pain, but honestly having one person in charge makes it way smoother. We tried the whole group chat chaos last year and nothing got decided. This time I just picked a date and a place and told people to show up, worked way better lol.
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logan_mitchell1mo ago
Three times now in the last six months I've had someone hit me with the "I just moved here" line and then basically expected me to be their personal Google Maps... @mianelson it's exactly like that. One guy in Austin asked me to pick the restaurant, the bar after, AND the best route to get there because he "hadn't figured out the traffic patterns yet." I ended up feeling like I was running a date and a city orientation at the same time. It's exhausting when you have to carry the whole conversation about where to even go.
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